Talk Preparation Guide for "Integrity and Virtue Lead to Happiness"

Elder Quentin L. Cook teaches that integrity, virtue, and ongoing repentance help disciples of Jesus Christ stay on the covenant path and experience true happiness. He connects these principles with everyday responsibilities, communication, obedience, service, and the companionship of the Holy Ghost. As you prepare your sacrament meeting talk, prayerfully choose principles and personal experiences that help listeners draw closer to the Savior. Before reading, consider these preview questions: What does integrity look like in daily discipleship? How does virtue lead to lasting happiness? How can your communication reflect the Savior’s example? What helps you receive the companionship of the Holy Ghost? How does daily repentance bring you closer to Jesus Christ?

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Honor Your Responsibilities with Integrity

Elder Cook uses the inscription that inspires President David O. McKay to emphasize doing our best in every responsibility. Integrity means living according to our beliefs and commitments and being honest with God, ourselves, and others. Even activities that are not inherently evil can distract us from spiritually important pursuits.

Whate’er thou art, act well thy part.

We need to live our lives with integrity and follow His example.

The Lord, speaking of one servant in Nauvoo, declared, “He may be trusted because of the integrity of his heart.”

Preach My Gospel teaches, “Integrity includes being honest with God, yourself, your leaders, and others.”

President Spencer W. Kimball taught that “integrity (the willingness and ability to live by our beliefs and commitments) is one of the foundation stones of good character, and without good character one cannot hope to enjoy the presence of God here or in the eternities.”

Key Points:

Lifelong discipleship requires integrity and a willingness to follow Jesus Christ.
Every responsibility offers an opportunity to do our best.
Integrity includes honesty with God, ourselves, our leaders, and others.
Good character rests on consistency between our beliefs and our actions.
We need to recognize when otherwise acceptable activities crowd out spiritual priorities.

Experiences:

What experience illustrates the importance of doing your best in a family, Church, school, or work responsibility?
What situation helps you explain the choice to remain honest when dishonesty seems easier?
Who models integrity for you, and what specific example shows the influence of that person?
What change in your use of time helps you give greater attention to spiritual priorities?

Pursue Lasting Happiness through Virtue

Elder Cook teaches that integrity, virtue, and happiness are intrinsically linked in Heavenly Father’s plan. Virtue includes moral strength, cleanliness, modesty, goodness, holiness, and reverence for sacred things. Lasting happiness comes through alignment with God’s will rather than choices that promise happiness without righteousness.

In the Father’s plan, integrity, virtue, and happiness are intrinsically linked.

Living a virtuous life with integrity aligns us with God’s will.

True happiness, often translated as blessedness, is the actual outcome of integrity and being virtuous.

Virtue includes not only a strong personal moral compass but also cleanliness, modesty, goodness, holiness, and reverence for the sacred.

Virtue, uprightness, faithfulness, holiness, and keeping the commandments of God lead to a happy life.

Key Points:

Heavenly Father’s plan connects virtuous living with true happiness.
Virtue encompasses both moral choices and reverence for sacred things.
The pursuit of happiness needs to include the pursuit of virtue.
Virtuous thoughts support a life aligned with God’s will.
The Lord desires our joy and richly rewards sacrifices made in His name.

Experiences:

What experience helps you distinguish lasting joy from temporary pleasure?
How does keeping a commandment bring peace or happiness into your life?
What practice helps you cultivate virtuous thoughts and reverence for sacred things?
What sacrifice for the Lord helps you recognize blessings that matter more than immediate convenience?

Communicate with Virtue and Make Peace

Elder Cook warns against coarse language, bullying, and efforts to damage another person’s reputation, especially online. He teaches that our communication can affect how others view God and the Savior. Although we cannot control others’ conduct, we can use technology wisely and choose to be righteous peacemakers.

Any use of the internet to bully, destroy a reputation, or place a person in a bad light is reprehensible.

It is clear that evil communications are not just a matter of bad manners.

The Lord has inspired marvelous technology that provides us with unparalleled experiences and opportunities when used wisely.

We cannot control the conduct of others, but we can strive to be a peaceable people who live in accordance with the Christlike conduct and virtues taught by our Savior, Jesus Christ.

Key Points:

Coarse and crude communication undermines virtue and civil discourse.
Online bullying and attacks on reputations violate the Savior’s teachings.
A disciple’s communication can influence people who lack a knowledge of God or a testimony of Jesus Christ.
Technology offers valuable opportunities when we use it wisely.
We can respond to hostility with Christlike conduct rather than retaliation.

Experiences:

What experience shows how a peaceful response changes a tense conversation?
How does a decision about posting, commenting, or sharing online help you practice discipleship?
Who demonstrates respectful disagreement in a way you can describe without criticizing others?
What positive use of technology helps you encourage someone or share the gospel?

Obey Christ and Invite the Holy Ghost

Elder Cook encourages daily scripture study and spiritual renewal, along with obedience that goes beyond merely professing belief. He connects virtuous thoughts, caring for others, and service with a life of integrity. He identifies the constant companionship of the Holy Ghost as the ultimate reward of integrity and virtue.

If we dedicate some time every day to the scriptures and spiritual renewal, we will be deeply blessed.

The Lord expects us to live lives of virtue and integrity and to follow His commandments.

And why call ye me, Lord, Lord, and do not the things which I say?

We show our integrity by living virtuous lives and caring for and serving others.

The ultimate reward of integrity and virtue is the constant companionship of the Holy Ghost.

But when we do what is right, He can dwell with us and guide us in all that we do.

Key Points:

Daily scripture study and spiritual renewal bring blessings.
Discipleship requires doing the Savior’s will, not merely calling Him Lord.
Focusing on what is lovely, virtuous, and praiseworthy supports righteous living.
Caring for and serving others expresses integrity.
Righteous choices invite the Holy Ghost’s companionship and guidance.

Experiences:

What experience illustrates how daily scripture study strengthens your ability to follow Christ?
What choice helps you explain the difference between professing faith and acting on faith?
How does serving someone help you feel closer to the Savior?
What appropriate experience with spiritual guidance shows the blessing of the Holy Ghost’s companionship?

Repent Daily and Receive the Savior’s Joy

Elder Cook teaches that integrity includes acknowledging faults to the Lord and repenting continually. His account of a former sailor learning the gospel illustrates the profound gratitude and joy that forgiveness through Jesus Christ brings. The Savior’s saving sacrifice makes repentance and the blessings of salvation and exaltation possible.

Part of having integrity is acknowledging our faults to the Lord and repenting of transgressions.

When we make repentance a constant, day-to-day part of our lives, we can approach the Lord with integrity and receive His saving blessings.

The Savior explained that He had not come to condemn the world but to save the world.

Integrity, virtue, and ongoing repentance are the answer in a world where coarse language and serious challenges are so prevalent.

I testify that Jesus Christ accomplished the eternity-shaping sacrifice necessary for our salvation and exaltation, in the name of Jesus Christ, amen.

Key Points:

Acknowledging our faults before God is an expression of integrity.
Repentance belongs in daily discipleship, not only in moments of serious crisis.
Jesus Christ comes to save the world and offers forgiveness through His sacrifice.
The former sailor’s response to repentance, baptism, and confirmation illustrates the joy of receiving forgiveness.
The joy of repentance inspires a desire to bless others, especially family members.

Experiences:

What experience helps you describe the peace of turning to the Savior without sharing sensitive details?
How does regular repentance help you become more honest with yourself and with God?
What image or personal experience helps you explain repentance as a joyful return rather than merely a punishment?
How does gratitude for Jesus Christ motivate you to share hope and joy with your family or others?