Words Matter
Ronald A. Rasband, of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles
Elder Rasband emphasizes the importance of words in connecting, uplifting, and following divine guidance.
Open talk in Gospel LibraryIdeas for Opening the Lesson
- Begin by asking the class to think about a time when words had a significant impact on them, either positively or negatively. Invite a few class members to share their experiences.
- Start the lesson by reading some powerful quotes or scriptures about the power of words. Encourage class members to reflect on these quotes and share their thoughts.
- Open the lesson with a short activity. Ask class members to write down on a piece of paper a few words that have had a profound impact on their lives. Collect the papers and read some of them out loud.
Topics
Understand the Importance of Words
Elder Rasband emphasized the power and importance of words. He explained that words are fundamental to how we connect with each other and express our beliefs, morals, and perspectives. However, words can also be harmful and destructive if used thoughtlessly.
Words. And words matter a lot. Let me say that again. Words matter! They are the bedrock of how we connect; they represent our beliefs, morals, and perspectives. Sometimes we speak words; other times we listen. Words set a tone.
- Why are words so powerful?
- Can you share an experience when words had a significant impact on you?
- What can we do to ensure that our words are thoughtful and uplifting?
- How can thoughtless words lead to harm and destruction?
- How can we improve our communication in our families and communities?
Recognize the Significance of the Lord's Words
Elder Rasband underscored the significance of the Lord's words, stating that they surpass all other expressions. He cited scriptures and testimonies to illustrate the enduring nature of God's words and their ability to draw us closer to Him.
That is why, first and foremost, the Lord’s words matter. In the Book of Mormon, the prophet Alma and his people in ancient America encountered endless warfare with those who had disregarded the word of God, hardened their hearts, and corrupted their culture.
- Why are the Lord's words so important in our lives?
- How can the Lord's words draw us closer to Him?
- Can you share a time when the Lord's words had a profound impact on you?
- How can we better listen to and heed the Lord's words?
- What changes might we need to make in our lives to better align with the Lord's words?
Value the Words of Prophets
Elder Rasband highlighted the importance of the words of prophets. He shared his testimony of President Russell M. Nelson and discussed the impact of heeding the prophet's words in our lives.
Second, the words of prophets matter. Prophets testify of the divinity of Jesus Christ. They teach His gospel and show His love for all. I bear my witness that our living prophet, President Russell M. Nelson, hears and speaks the word of the Lord.
- Why are the words of the prophets so crucial for us?
- How have the words of the prophets influenced your life?
- Can you share an experience when you felt guided or comforted by the words of a prophet?
- How can we better follow the counsel of our living prophet?
- What steps can we take to better study and apply the words of the prophets in our daily lives?
Consider the Impact of Our Own Words
Elder Rasband discussed the impact of our own words, emphasizing the need to use them thoughtfully and kindly. He suggested three simple phrases - "Thank you", "I am sorry", and "I love you" - that can lift and reassure others.
Third, and so very important, are our own words. Believe me, in our emoji-filled world, our words matter. Our words can be supportive or angry, joyful or mean, compassionate or tossed aside. In the heat of the moment, words can sting and sink painfully deep into the soul—and stay there.
- How can our words impact others?
- Why is it important to use our words thoughtfully and kindly?
- Can you share an experience when someone's words had a profound impact on you?
- How can we better use our words to uplift and reassure others?
- What changes might we need to make in the way we communicate with others?
Additional Discussion Questions
- What stood out to you most in Elder Rasband's talk?
- How can we ensure that our words reflect our beliefs and values?
- Why is it important to listen to and heed the words of the Lord and His prophets?
- How can we better use our words to uplift and support others?
- What steps can we take to improve our communication within our families and communities?
- How can studying the words of Christ increase our ability to be more like Him?
- How can we better incorporate the words 'Thank you', 'I am sorry', and 'I love you' into our daily communication?
- What are some ways we can show regard for others through our words?
- How can we strive to speak with 'the tongue of angels'?
- How can we use our words to testify of Jesus Christ and His gospel?
